What
does it take to have a happy and successful naming
ceremony for your child? Basically a good (and
experienced) celebrant whose schedule fits yours, a
relaxed and happy baby, and an environment that is
comfortable for your guests.
All it takes to achieve that is a bit of juggling!
If you are at the stage in your parenting journey
that you are considering organising a naming
ceremony for your baby you already know that your
child's personal schedule is uniquie, and most
likely doesn't always align with yours.
At certain times of the day you have observed that
your child is more sociable, more alert, and more
amenable to the sort of activities a naming
ceremony involves. Which largely means being
clean, being rested, and not being hungry. But at
other times of the day is highly likely to be grumpy
and demanding.
Choose a good start time
for the ceremony
out
The secret to a successful naming ceremony often
comes down to choosing the right time. Babies are
often at their social best mid-morning or early
afternoon. But not every baby keeps to the same
timetable. So your primary consideration should be
to choose a start time for the ceremony that fits
your child's personal feeding/sleeping/sociability
schedule.
Other issues you should also take into consideration
may include
- The Temperature.
As most naming ceremonies are held outdoors,
either in the backyard or a convenient park, it
is wise to choose a time that sidesteps the
hottest part of the day, and when there is shade
over the ceremony area and where your guests
will be standing or seated.
- The Light
One thing that definitely happens at naming
ceremonies is that everyone takes photos. So
choosing a time of day when the light is most
conducive to good photos, regardless of which
type of device is being used, steer clear of the
middle of the day. In Queensland, the morning
light is softer and really good for outdoor
photos.
- Guest work and sporting commitments
Choose a ceremony day that
suits everyone
out
For obvious reasons, most naming ceremonies are held
at the weekend, with Sunday being the more popular
day, though certain public holidays are also quite
popular. Australia Day, for example.
Just bear in mind that Saturdays are popular for
weddings, so it might be more difficult to book a
good celebrant at short notice. You also need to
take your guests work commitments into account,
given that many people now work at the weekend.
If there is one thing I've learned in naming more than
300 children it is that a naming ceremony must always
be conducted on "baby time". You must build enough
time into the schedule of activities (for example,
when lunch will be served) to allow time to pause the
ceremony to tend to your child's needs (or the needs
of another baby present), if necessary. Whether the
baby needs changing, feeding, or generally soothing,
this should be able to be done with minimum stress. I
always have a few tricks up my sleeve to keep your
guests engaged and occupied while we pause the
ceremony.
It may be that, if a whole raft of reasons, the only
day/time that you can schedule your child's naming is
one I'm just not available for. I've got that covered.
Talk to me about a DIY ceremony option. That's the one
where I create the ceremony and provide a full script
and coaching so one of your friends or a family member
can lead the ceremony on the day.